In this essay we are going to talk about the How to impress a girl by chatting? India is turning digital. Social media is in trend. We meet a lot of people and then communicate with them on our phones over social media to know them better. Late night chats with your crush must have been your dream but have you failed at not being able to keep the girl you like engaged in chatting.
Does she say bye to you very soon but still appears online after a few minutes. Are you only the first one to message her and she gives a cold one-word reply? Then you must be lacking the tricks and ways to effectively chat with a girl for hours, to keep her engaged in some real talks and make her miss you so bad that she text you even late at night.
Top 10 Ways To Impress A Girl By Chatting
After reading this article till the last you, I am sure that no girl will leave a conversation unfinished in between and getting notification tones will be a usual thing for you.
1. Find her area of interest
Every girl is unique. You have to identify what she likes and what she doesn’t. Just imagine you like Sci-fi movies and someone starts discussing Historical movies with you. Will you find it interesting to carry on the conversation? The same is with girls, you have to ask about the songs and singers they like, the place they want to go on a trip. Her hobbies, if you both have a few similar interests start talking about those.
If the girl you are talking to likes to read and you also have some books\novels then ask if she wants some. If she likes spicy food then discuss the restaurants where you go, by this, you will increase your chances to meet her too.
Don’t fake your interests and be real. Also after you have listened to her well and she is replying well then also mention some of your good interests. Your interests and hobbies tell a lot about your nature and personality so make sure you be real and keep the conversation interesting.
2. Act matured
A girl’s inbox is never empty. Boys keep messaging her on Instagram, Facebook and even WhatsApp. Among so many options with so many boys texting her waiting for her replies, disturbing her you have to act mature and be patient. It’s better to talk less at first creating an impression on her that you are a busy man and is not some unemployed guy roaming here and there to chat.
You know first, you have to talk about her interest. At the end of the conversation just tell that you have to go on an important project which you are leading.
Let her know that you matter in your friend’s circle and you are not an introvert. Be bold and be confident.
3. Never be an instant replier
No matter how free you are just never reply instantly if her message pops up. A delay of 15-20 minutes is well appreciated. In this period she will only wonder about you. She will think of the project you mentioned earlier, she will read your previous messages will see your profile picture and will wait for you. Just don’t be available all the time. Let her put in the effort and invest some of her valuable time for you. The way to a girl’s heart starts from her mind. If you will be in her mind she will carry you down to her heart.
4. Status game
As I mentioned before more the effort she puts to talk to you more will be the intensity and frequency of her chats. Now, what is the Status game?
Select some of your best pics with your female classmate of your friend in a good cafe or doing something amazing and put them on status in a way so that only she can see it. By doing so she will come to know how cool you are and you are also popular among girls. Now she will think that you are not easy to get and have time fixed so she will try to communicate with you and when you will talk to her she will know that you are making time for her and giving her priority.
Putting nice status 2-3 times a week about a book, new movie you are watching on Netflix, friends going in the cafe and also doing some of the things which she likes for eg. Is she has told you that she is a big fan of BTS and you put a status listening to BTS song will create a good impact on her?
Now you have shown her that you care about her interest, talk to her out of your busy schedule, do the things which she likes and showed her that you aren’t an introvert at all. Now it’s time to gear up.
5. Be super funny
No girl will give her time to a boring boy who acts like a nerd and can’t make a girl laugh.
To be funny you can do many things like sending her memes. Nowadays memes are becoming a status symbol, if you don’t know about a famous meme then the girl assumes that you are living in a cave. Use emoji only when needed and talk funnily. Apart from memes, you can send her links to comedy films and yes try to be frank as well. If she is of your age then talk to her like a friend, don’t be shy and a few adult jokes will not you. Always prove to her that you are confident and also make her comfortable with you.
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6. Praise her beauty
Every girl in this world wants appreciation, not only girls but boys as well. We like to be appreciated and when someone appreciates us we start liking that person. And when you appreciate a girl for her look she will find it super amazing. Whenever she puts a new DP a small kind compliment will make the things in your favour. Don’t appreciate in a quick way like “Nice DP”, Remember every boy say this to her you have to stand out of the crowd. A few lines from a good poem will drive her crazy.
7. Dedicate a song
This stage should come after a month after you talk regularly and it’s important because you have to show her that you are unique and care for her more than her usual friends.
Dedicate a friend song where it is portrayed how wonderful she is and how lucky you are to get a friend like her.
She will feel the best when you will do so.
8. Ask about her problems
We all have problems in our lives and in the case of girls even small problems make them worried. If you will not ask her problems and will keep being funny she will block you then and there only. If you are noticing someday that she is not replying to you like previous days and is not laughing then be patient and ask her the problem she is facing. At first, she will not tell you but you have to convince her and stay with her. Don’t force her but just show her that you are there to help. She will discuss her problems and when she told her all, act wisely and motivate her. Tell her everything will be ok and you are with her and also other friends are with her. Now send her a meme and try to make her laugh.
9. Make plans
Now you both are close and now you can ask her if she wants to go out with you. You both start making plans while chatting and keep carrying the conversation forward. Make plans about what you should dress and where you both should go. In her favourite cafe or an amusement park. Also, ask her if she wants to go alone or with her friends. If she wants to spend a good time with you she will go alone. Spend some bucks and plan a movie together.
10. Show her your skills
Post on Instagram and WhatsApp status about the interesting things you are doing. Share the details with her and also tell her your income if you are earning. A person earning will tell prove to her that you can really be responsible and will be independent soon.
Discuss social issues, discuss women safety and how she can take care of them. Support feminism and women role in society. You have to prove to her that you are a person of a good mentality.
These all ways and things will make you her favourite and she will love spending time with you online as well as offline. Always be respectful, don’t send vulgar messages. With all these things in mind and by applying them correctly, you are now ready to chat with your crush and impress her with your chatting skills. You will outstand everyone and will leave a deep impression on her mind and body.