In this essay we are going to talk about the My Mother. Vishakha Khade is the name of that beautiful women who brought me into this world. Mother’s are the most precious gift from god. Infact they are the ones because of which the whole world exists because ultimately a female gives birth to another human.
Short Essay on my mother
If my mother wouldn’t have given birth to me, then today I won’t be able to write this essay for her. Everybody on this planet earth feels that their mother is the best. So do I. Therefore, here is the description of my mumma.
Simplicity
I am 21 years old. Uptil now I have observed that my mother is the most simplest human ever found on this planet. No one has the kind of innocence she has. She does everything with a pure heart. There is no negative or bad intention behind what she does. There have been some incidents in her life wherein people took advantage of her simplicity. But my mom did not make those incidents turn her bitter. Instead those incidents made her more wise and better. She keeps telling me about her life experiences. This helps me in a big way. This quality of hers is rare to find in any other human being.
Fighter
My mom is a fighter. She has been fighting all her life. Initially when she got married to my father, her days were quite shady as she faced domestic violence from her in laws. But still she took it all with a smile. Domestic violence is a difficult and an insulting situation. Once she discussed with me all the things she went through during the early stages of her marriage. I was tear-eyed after listening to all those ridiculous stories. I thought to myself that how she must have gone through all these things. And today if you look at my mom and get to know her, nobody will be able to believe that behind her smile there were a bucket full of tears. I am proud to have a mother like her.
Best friend
We all have friends. They play a huge role in our lives. But you cannot have any other friend like a mother. My mother is my bestest friend. I share my feelings and opinions with her. I talk to her about each and everything. She is my guide in the most difficult situations of my life. Outside world is selfish. People leave you. But my mother never left my side. She stood with me firmly and continues to do so. In life all our outside relations have some sort of a condition. In return, these relations expect us to give back something. But my mother or for that matter every mother out there is a selfless giver. There is no one like her. I found it easy to face the storms of my life as my mother was always by my side.
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Sacrificing nature
We as daughters and sons don’t understand how much sacrifice our mother has done for us. And this sacrifice word is ingrained in every mother’s dictionary for lifetime. In fact my mother has not just sacrificed a lot of things she wanted, for me but also for our whole family. But surprisingly, there is not even a single moment wherein she has uttered about all the sacrifices she has made for us. I still remember a time when our family was facing financial problems.
We had to think before spending money on smallest of things. But even during these tough days she spent her savings on my hair treatment as the condition of my hair was worsening day by day. It required immediate treatment otherwise it would have turned into something else only. I clearly remember even she needed hair treatment that time, but she did not think for herself. I don’t think as children’s we can ever payback our mothers.
Adaptive nature
My mother can handle every situation life throws at her with a brave and positive attitude. She completely moulds herself according to the situation. As we all are aware that change is the only constant in all our lives. It’s a difficult task to adapt according to different situations. But my mother does it effortlessly. I still remember a time when my mother had a beauty parlour of her own. Back then, I was two years old. My mother has literally carried me with her to the parlour and has successfully done her job as a beautician. Hats off to this lady for being such a multitasker.
Kind nature
It is famously said that in this harsh world, be kind to everyone. My mother is the kindest of all. There are times when I have fought with her, did rude back answering with her, had long fights, was not talking to her for weeks and all those things. But she never took all my mistakes to her heart. Every time I make a mistake, she forgets all of it and then gets back to her normal mood. Her kindness is something that cannot be competed with. Sometimes even I get shocked seeing her kindness towards everyone. I don’t know how I will inculcate this quality of her in mine.
My mom has taught me throughout the course of my life that no matter how much you achieve in your life, whoever you are, just be kind to all the human beings you meet in your individual life. She says it will help you. To my surprise, she is also kind to all those in laws who treated her badly. It’s kind of not easy to again go back to those toxic people who have done wrong to us. But my mother, with her big heart has swallowed all their bad mistakes and moved on with a smile. This gesture of my mother is courageous.
Childish nature
My mother’s real nature is a bit childish. She is funny also . But one thing which really gets to my heart is that she gets hurt quite easily. Just like a child anyone can make her cry in a fraction of second. This is something that worries me. Being a child at heart is great but not in every life situation, because the world out there is crazy. People take advantage of other people which has happened with my mother a lot of times. I always have discussions with her regarding how to deal with the outside world wisely. It’s a vice-versa kind of discussion wherein we both teach each other about how to deal with the outside world. Such discussions are fruitful for both of us.
Because of this childish nature of hers, there are times when she gets angry easily and that too for silly reasons. At times, it’s difficult to control her. One thing what I have learnt is that you should never expect perfection from your mother because as a daughter/ son you too are not perfect. This is something I have learned overtime.
Determination
My mother’s determination helped her to fulfill all her career goals. She took her education after ten years of marriage. Keen on graduating, she went ahead and enrolled herself in a college. To our whole family’s surprise she completed her graduation and masters too. While she was studying, it was difficult for her to balance her studies and our house. My father was not in complete support of her. She has faced a lot of struggles while completing her education. I was a school going student at that point of time. Therefore, I couldn’t help her much. But my brave lady fought like a warrior and achieved her target. There were times of frustrations and emotional breakdowns. My mother just held her head high and rolled up her sleeves. This experience of her life taught her to be unstoppable. She is an inspiration.
Creative
Creativity is something that comes naturally to my mom. She also has a degree in art. Preparing various handicrafts and paintings is something she loves. I proudly say that she also has her portfolios in the field of art. She always tells me that she wants to hold a exhibition wherein she will display all her paintings and other artworks. Her creative mind is always at work. Whenever we go out for shopping or for some other work, she will always point out various colour combinations and designs. She has an eye for creative works. I have also framed her paintings in my house. It gives her utmost joy to see them.
Never give up attitude
My mother has experienced lot of tough phases in her life. Our extended family members have sometimes insulted her. There were occassions wherein she was made fun of. Her heart got this habit of being heartbroken frequently. My father did not support her in everything she did. I could sense her pain in those tough situations. But she never gave up. Instead she faced all the challenges and emerged out as a winner.
I am blessed to be my mother’s daughter. Mom’s are the best creations of the almighty.