In this article we are going to talk about the What are the secret things that Women will never tell men? All the “women are a mystery men can never understand” cliché is grossly exaggerated and overrated of course. Whether that is due to upbringing, societal order, stereotyping from birth or simply due to biological differences is debatable, but the fact remains that men cannot fully understand women just as women cannot fully understand men. And men are always wondering about what exactly is going on in the minds of the women in their life.
The truth is, it is important for any strange article to answer that question. Each woman, each person, is unique and doesn’t for into boxes and generalizations. But we generalize anyway because in desperate situations maybe that’s all we got. This article may help some, may offend others. This is a list of some things that most women want to tell their men, but mostly find themselves unable to voice them.
What are the secret things that Women will never tell men?
The top secret things that Woman will never tell a man are discussed below in detail:
1. Eyes For Others
Do you really think that men are the only ones who ‘check out’ the opposite sex? It’s just that men gawk openly while the stare of a woman is subtle but all pervasive. In one passing look a woman will assess everything about you from your shoes to your eye color. And it isn’t just restricted to the opposite sex. Women check out other women more than any hetero man does. Women check out hairstyles and handbags and clothes and manicures. Then there’s the stalking skills. Don’t ask how she knows the name of your neighbor’s best friend’s childhood pet, she just does. It’s actually because of a dreadful combination of curiosity and insecurity instilled into most women from birth.
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2. Women Fart Too
No, women are not pure, heavenly beings that descended to earth from planet Venus. Women may smell better because they tend to take better care of themselves, but they are humans who have biological processes that occur in a regular fashion inside of their bodies. They poop and pee, and burp and fart. They drool and snore. They get colds and flus and look disgusting and blow their noses loudly when they do. And we’ll get to the periods later. None of their bodily fluids smell like roses and look like liquid glitter. If a woman goes to that much trouble to hide all of these human imperfections around you, then it means that she is that insecure about her body and the strength of her relationship with you. So make sure the woman in your life are comfortable enough to be their most disgusting selves around you.
3. Women Like Sensitive Men
Yes, real men cry and women appreciate men who are not afraid to show their emotions. Toxic masculinity gets glorified in movies and popular culture but that is not reflective of the way things are. Nobody wants a Kabir Singh who orders a woman around and gives her ultimatums and abuses her. Woman want men who treat them right, talk to them, are not afraid to be vulnerable around them. Vulnerability is a prized quality not a mocked one.
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4. Hoes Before Bros
Thelma will always put Louise before any man. If her person comes knocking in the middle of the night, it doesn’t matter if you’re McDreamy, you’re sleeping on the couch. Just referencing some of the glorious on screen female friendships. Women friends love and support each other through everything. They share every detail of their lives from what they had for breakfast to the intricacies of their sex life. The Sex and the City gang is still alive and living in every corner of the world. So keep in mind that for the women in your life, their girlfriends will always be first priority. Try not to be too offended by that.
5. Affection
Women prize affection over everything else. Whether it be from their friends, family or lovers, they give love and affection and expect the same in return. In a relationship, a woman may enjoy the cuddling and the foreplay more than the actual sex itself. Words chosen with care matter. The thought that goes into a gift matters more than the cost.
6. Sexuality
It is a common misconception, especially among the people of our country that women do not enjoy sex or get pleasure from it. Female orgasms are not given much priority it seems, even by the females. But sex is meant to be a pleasurable activity for all parties involved. So when a woman says no, that’s because she really doesn’t want to, and if a women doesn’t show interest in engaging her sexual activities, do not ever, ever, attempt to force her. But that really doesn’t need to be stressed here because all our readers are educated men who fully understand the concept of consent, right? And another mention worthy point is that, women masturbate. Yes, women explore their sexuality just as much as men do. And they should not be restricted or shamed for that.
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7. Nothing To Wear
When women look into their seemingly overflowing wardrobes and exclaim that they have nothing to wear, they are not exaggerating. Because women are always, always, judged by their appearance. In the workplace, on a date, or just walking down the street, how a woman is dressed has an impact on how every little part of her day is going to go.
Too slutty, too prude, too over the top, too overwhelming, too underwhelming, too punk, too chic. And as much as women might want to ignore the opinions of this screwed up society, it is just too damn tiring to be fighting against the system all the time. So a clothing choice is always a major decision. Decision to be the resistance or blend in with the rest of the sheep. The decision to give in to the fear or stick with dangerous courage. The decision to be cautious or to let it all go.
8. Periods
Men can never hope to understand the trials and tribulations that come along with this monthly piece of hell that is a part of being born a woman. They cannot understand the pain of your body tearing itself up from the inside, the discomfort of the tampons and napkins, the rashes, the mood swings, the cravings and the million other things. Most of the time women don’t even completely understand it themselves. So offer your support to the woman in your life during that time of the month, try to stay out the way during her mood swings, and help her in what ways she will let you. Don’t try to downplay the pain or undermine it, don’t make period jokes- we all know how that went for Trump- and don’t try to make sense of it. You won’t succeed.
9. There’s Caring And There’s possessive
As much as porn and mainstream movies may tell you otherwise, women, most women, do not like to be objectified and do not like to be treated as anyone’s property. There is a difference between men wanting the women in their life to be safe and well, and wanting to control her every moment in the pretense of achieving that. Control in the guise of caring is not caring. Whether you are her father, brother, friend, lover or husband, don’t try to take away a woman’s freedom. She is not your property she is a person of her own. And a lot of women are so used to being caged that they don’t know how to tell you they want to be free. This may not exactly be a secret that women don’t tell men, but it needed to be said anyway.
10. Fear
Most women live in a perpetual state of fear of the world. Fear of every passing man, fear of the dark, fear of dying alone, fear of being judged and a million other fears. That’s how this twisted society has made them to be, with stories of rapes and assaults, with their swift judgements and name calling. A kind of all pervading fear that most men have the privilege of never needing to understand. Try to understand it, for the sake of the women in your life. And if you find yourself as a part of the problem, try to change.
This article is generalized in a way that it should not be, but it is impossible to write such an article without being so. So apologies for all those that this offends, and for all those who did not find this satisfactory.